August 2020
“I wake up every day, right here, right in Punxsutawney, and it’s always February 2nd. And there’s nothing I can do about it.”
Hello from Orlando! One of my favorite people in the world is Bill Murray. Not just because he’s a fellow Chicago Cubs fan, but because I grew up watching him in some of my favorite movies. I was a huge Ghostbusters fan as a kid. I must’ve watched it a hundred times. I don’t remember how old I was when Groundhog Day came out, maybe sixteen or so, but I didn’t come to appreciate it as much until I got a little older.
Groundhog Day is a movie I watch at least once a year now. And it’s one of my favorites. As a student of story structure, I just love how the movie was put together.
If you’re the one person who’s never seen it, Bill Murray portrays Phil Connors, a cynical TV weatherman who is covering the annual Groundhog Day event in Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania, for the fourth year in a row. And he’s not happy about the assignment. Phil gets stuck in a time loop and wakes up every day to Sonny and Cher’s I Got You Babe playing on the clock radio, during Sonny’s excruciating-to-listen-to solo, and is forced to relive February 2nd over and over again for the rest of the film.
“Well, what if there is no tomorrow? There wasn’t one today.”
So I’m sure it comes as no surprise to anyone that when I think about the last six months, where virtually every day seems exactly like the day before, and the hundred and eighty days that came before that, I think of Groundhog Day. I know I’m not alone.
I’ve aways wondered… how long did Phil actually relive February 2nd in the story?
This morning, I went to find out. According to the late Harold Ramis, probably 30 years. That makes sense, when you think about everything Phil was able to do by the end of the movie… becoming a master ice sculptor, learning the piano, learning French, learning about the townspeople and about Rita, what she likes and what she doesn’t.
“Let me ask you a question. What if there were no tomorrow?”
Back to our situation over what has been six months now, I think about our days at home and how we’ve finally gained more of something we’ve always wanted: time.
But time, which looks like a gift on the surface, can also be a curse, without structure. That was one of the lessons Phil had to learn in Groundhog Day. Without structure, he was rudderless. The film became darker and darker as it played on. Driving on railroad tracks, becoming more desperate by the day, finally realizing there was no way out.
What’s interesting to me is how Phil Connors ultimately escaped Groundhog Day.
He made a decision to make good use of his time. He embraced it. And he changed.
Every story has a theme. Every story is about something more than the story’s plot.
What I think Groundhog Day is really about, the theme of the tale… is perspective.
“Today is tomorrow. It happened.”
In the end, Groundhog Day is a comedy. Phil Connors ultimately chooses to use his newfound time to become a better version of himself. He learns from his past, he cares about the present, and he finally breaks the curse. After being rudderless for what must’ve felt like forever, Phil decided to make the most out of his situation and grow.
I don’t know about you, but I’ve felt rudderless for a while.
They say if you don’t like something, change it.
And if you can’t change it, then change the way you think about it.
I think I’m finally ready to embrace it… to use the time to try and become a better version of myself. To make the most out of the situation. To learn… and to grow…
To not postpone joy until we’ve learned all of the lessons we’re supposed to learn.
Joy, itself, is the lesson.
Because if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
And because, as Phil Connors had to learn in Groundhog Day, when we’re no longer able to change our situation, then the only thing left that we can change is ourselves.