I wanted to give you a quick update on the writing front.
I’m now about 10,000 words into the new series centered around Jami Davis—and it’s finally starting to feel real.
It’s a psychological thriller, which is a little outside my comfort zone. Different tone. Different pacing. Different kinds of twists. There are days where it feels exciting… and days where it feels like I have no idea what I’m doing.
But I keep showing up.
And that’s made me think a lot lately about the difference between wanting something and wanting the lifestyle that comes with it.
Because they’re not the same thing.
A lot of people want to write a book. But they don’t want to spend months or years sitting alone in front of a blank page.
A lot of people want to get in shape. But they don’t want to wake up early, eat differently, and stay disciplined.
A lot of people want success. But they don’t want the repetition, boredom, sacrifice, and consistency that success usually requires.
We all want the reward.
The hard part is wanting the responsibility that comes with the reward.
There’s a quote I came across recently by author James Clear that stuck with me:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire.”
That one hit me.
Because everything we want has a lifestyle attached to it. And a cost.
Writing has a cost.
Business has a cost.
Relationships have a cost.
Peace has a cost.
And the price we pay is living the lifestyle that supports the dream.
The gap between where we are and where we want to be usually isn’t luck.
It’s habits.
It’s consistency.
It’s doing the work when it stops being exciting and starts being hard.
10,000 words down.
And a lot more to go…
Because everything has a cost.
Most people just aren’t willing to pay it. -Ken
